Thanks Susan....

I got this off of FACE BOOK from one of my best friends Susan.  I think it's great!

Be very careful if you make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The woman came out of a man's rib, not from his feet to be walked on, not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal! Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved... 

People should read it and pay attention....all over this great country. 

Why...

Why speak....does anybody really hear you?  And if they do are they listening?

Why breath..  If you stop is anybody going to notice?  And if they do are they are they going to help you start breathing again?

Why cry... do the tears really accomplish anything?  I just get a headache, yet I can't help but cry sometimes.

Why love....are you ever really loved back?  Actions speak louder then words.  Most times all that gets heard anymore is a bunch of loud words.

Why make a promise......do you really want to do it?   Or are you just trying to shut up the person that asked the question?  Are you really listening when you answer in the first place?

Why no affection....is there no love?  Do you just not care....does anybody care.  Prob not.   I'm prob wrong ........again.

Why do you not realize that if you don't show me you love me....one day somebody else might show me attention.  But then I will be the wrong one.  But deep down will that make you happy? 

Why does everybody put everything on MY shoulders?  I have to say hi...I have to be the bigger person....I have to say sorry....I have to shut up....I have to do whatever...ME!!!  Why?!  Whats wrong with everybody else?  Why are "you" so much better then I am?  Just wondering....

A few observations....

People really need to thank each other more for the small things, like holding the door open at the store, letting you over in traffic, bringing you a drink just because you noticed theirs was empty.

Say hi...just because.  It won't hurt it wont take long.  Who cares if you live with the person, if you see them once a week, once a year, or if you just wish you could see them.

Don't get all pissy when somebody calls you out on something you know you are/were wrong on, and start pointing out every little fault in them.  Just because they called you out, and made you have to see that your not 10ft tall and bullet proof doesn't mean that...#1 they are perfect, #2 you have to try to make them feel like crap just to make yourself feel better, #3 you have to be an ass.  Accept that you just might be wrong for once admit it or whatever and move on. 

Now this one goes for a lot of people around my generation....just because you grew up a certain way, doesn't necessarily mean you have to act that way.  Not saying you can't take some things from your past, but common step by step...really?  Then we would still have slavery and segregated schools people.  Show compassion, hug, communicate, don't cook, drive, get a dishwasher, have sex other then to make babies, women play cards and men cook, go fight that fire, yadda yadda.

"You get more Flys with Honey then Vinegar " people ...so (at least for me) rude, bossy, commanding, you know all things along those lines.  The only thing your going to do is make whatever the problem is worse.  A lot worse.  Because that just then well I just have to do things my way ...x alot.

Next is something I know we all have to some extent, but it just seems some people are a lot worse then others....double standards.  Why..what do they accomplish?  .......so just stop

All we need is love....sex....hugs...kisses....nibbling....pawing....hair pulling....whatever...just stop the crap! *SMILE*

Field trip and some wants....

So I was talking to a friend today about getting away, nothing major but just some friends having fun.  I so need that, I need to get away from the drama that is me sometimes.  I want to let my hair down, and have fun... not worry about what I say or who may be judging what I say because they love me for ME.  I want to go to a club, not to get drunk and show my ass, but to have fun.  I want to go to a play, a battle of the bands,  shopping, dinner theater, take Diem rollerskating, and I want to snuggle not for long just a little bit. Oh well I guess we all want.....

My new study materals....

So that I can become a more "seen" wife....  you can actually read the entire thing yourself  HERE! 
It's kinda entertaining!

 

Just gotta giggle...

So I just needed to giggle....and some of these you may not find funny, but I do.  All the better if you do to!

 

 

And we ALL know somebody that would try to drink from the urinal and that needs to eat some soup!!!! LMAO

G-L-O-C-K and a toddler....

 So I Diem is starting to spell out almost everything that she see's.  This morning she see's my gun case on the shelf, so she spells out G-L-O-C-K!  So I say ..yes honey that says "Glock" she then proceeds to say g.l.o.c.k ..glock for at LEAST an hour.  I must admit though I was proud...LOL .  I want to be that "bad" mom that gets her, her first "gun"(b.b gun) when she is like 5 and take her out shooting.  Then move her up to a rifle not long after, get her a cute pink one.  Let her go out hunting with her Uncle and to the range with her father or whoever she wants to go with.  I don't want her being scared, I want her to know gun safety.  They will be locked up at home...duh.  But she can spell Glock at 2 she can shoot one at 10...haha! 

Oh and people don't assume, I love it when people assume that when you say something negative its about them.  Just because the most of things are does not mean EVERYTHING is.  In your own words "the world does not revolve around _____" .  Not trying to be negative, just saying stop the double standards.....

Pray for somebody....LOL

 The viedo here!!

 Their facebook page is here!

This song just makes you laugh!!  Enjoy!

"Pray for You" by Jaron and The Long Road to Love - LYRICS...


Haven’t been in church since
I don’t remember when
Things were going great
Til they fell apart again
So I listened to the preacher
As he told me what to do
Said you can’t go hating othes
who done wrong to you
Sometimes we get angry
But we must not condemn
Let the good Lord do his job
And you just pray for them

I pray your brakes go out
Running down a hill
I pray and flower pot falls
From a window sill
And knocks you in the head like I’d like to
I pray your birthday comes and nobody calls
I pray your flying high when your engine stalls
I pray all your dreams never come true
Just know wherever you are
Honey, I pray for you

Really glad I found my way to church
Cause I’m already feeling better and I thank God for the words
So I’m gonna take the high road
And do what the preacher told me to do
You keep messing up
And I’ll keep praying for you

I pray your tire blows out at 110
I pray you pass out with your best friend
And wake up with his and her tattoos

Wherever you are, near or far, in your house or in your car
Wherever you are honey, I pray for you.

Care....

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HAPPY????  YA'LL WIN!!  Now everybody should be happy......but me of course.   But hey...who cares, majority rules right?
To those that offered to send Josh things...you can or can't now...that's up to you.  But thank you for being kind enough to do so.
I do have a question, yall know that book from that NCIS episode, what was it?  The Good wives manual or something like that?  You know the one that the Priest made the women that kept locked in the dudgeon type environments study? How do I get my hands on a copy of that?  Since apparently I need it, and that's the decade were all living in.  I'm not a child....don't treat me like one

Want...

Just go...2010 I don't like you so far so can you just go away please?  People were nicer to me in 2009, people tried in 2009.  People wanted (or at least pretended) the right thing in 2009.  Tonight I spent 45min making dinner for nothing.  My child gets fussed at for nothing.  What ever happened to pick your battles?  I mean really what harm is a 2y/o going to do to a sleeping bag?  I think some people just like to be mean at least once a week, like they can't function if they arn't.  I turned down something I wanted for them, they don't know it....doubt they will care.  I just want to be held,  I want a hug, I want to snuggle.  Will I ever know what feeling again?

Still up...

So my Christmas decorations are still up...not that I had a lot to begin with, but alas they are still up.  Not because I'm to lazy to take them down, but because I know as soon as they come down the bit of bliss that came with the Holidays will be gone.  Then the reality of 2010 will begin to set in.  So many things some good some..eh.  Dh deploys at some point..obviously not good.  I get to move out of this house that was great for all of about the first six months we lived here.  The neighborhood is wonderful, but this house is just not functional.  But well I get to move alone, with a 2y/o.  So you can see the good and bad in that of course.  Don't get me wrong I'm thankful for the roof over my head and not  living in the hood like we did for a second there.  But ya'll know what I mean.  Anyways, it looks like 2010 will be the year of mixed emotions for me....LOL.  I just hope I can smile more this year then I did last year....that is my goal.  I just might have to enlist the help of a few of ya'll!