Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Thank you



To all the Soldiers, Marines, Sailors, Coasties, and Airmen past, present, and future.  For everything you have done to protect our country.  And thank you to those who serve in the silent ranks at home.  What some call the hardest job in the Military.  So regardless of what you did or do Thank you and God Bless. 

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

My head

I have had a migirane for going on 8 days now.  The new meds help for a couple of hours then its right back.  So I'm going to the Neuro tomorrow, maybe she will cut my head off??   Anyways just to make us all smile for the day :

Monday, November 9, 2009

Not me Monday...



I didn't wake up this morning with yet another migraine and immediately start to cry.  Because big girls don't cry.  Not me

I didn't get in the shower and wash my hair just to have it come out by the hand fulls...at this rate I will by bald before summer, but hey at least I will be cool...LOL.  But that didn't make me keep crying.  Not me

I didn't get my hopes up ...again that Josh would call me with wonderful news about some mircale orders.  Just to be let down, because I'm a Navy wife and we don't get let down.  Not us

I didn't laugh at my daughter today when she walked up to me with one green shoe and one pink shoe and said lets go!  Not me

I was not stoked to find Disney p.j's for $5 shipped today!  So I got Diem Tinkerbell ones!!  Well wait...no not me...LOL

I don't wish my husband would just TALK to me about our future..hell talk period, sometime's I wonder if he even wants one.  I have never wondered if he dreams of a magical live without me.  No not me.

I never wonder if I am just the most unloveable person in the universe..no not me.

I never just want to take a certain "family" member and just ask "WTF"??!?!!!!? ....nope not me

I don't FEEL more cared about by strangers sometimes, then by the people  that are supposed to care about me irl...no not me

Sunday, November 8, 2009

Why do what I do....and why I LOVE it!!




911 Dispatchers
A TRIBUTE TO DISPATCHERS By Chief Thomas Wagoner, Loveland Co. PD Someone once asked me if I thought that answering telephones for a living was a profession. I said, "I thought it was a calling."And so is dispatching. I have found in my law enforcement career that dispatchers are the unsung heroes of public safety. ...They miss the excitement of riding in a speeding car with lights flashing and sirens wailing. They can only hear of the bright orange flames leaping from a burning building. They do not get to see the joy on the face of worried parents as they see their child begin breathing on its own, after it has been given CPR. Dispatchers sit in darkened rooms looking at computer screens and talking to voices from faces they never see. It's like reading a lot of books, but only half of each one. Dispatchers connect the anxious conversations of terrified victims, angry informants, suicidal citizens and grouchy officers. They are the calming influence of all of them - the quiet, competent voices in the night that provide the pillars for the bridges of sanity and safety. They are expected to gather information from highly agitated people who can't remember where they live, what their name is, or what they just saw. And then, they are to calmly provide all that information to the officers, firefighters, or paramedics without error the first time and every time. Dispatchers are expected to be able to do five things at once - and do them well. While questioning a frantic caller, they must type the information into a computer, tip off another dispatcher, put another caller on hold, and listen to an officer run a plate for a parking problem. To miss the plate numbers is to raise the officer's ire; to miss the caller's information may be to endanger the same officer's life. But, the officer will never understand that. Dispatchers have two constant companions, other dispatchers and stress. They depend on one, and try to ignore the other. They are chastened by upset callers, taken for granted by the public, and criticized by the officers. The rewards they get are inexpensive and infrequent, except for the satisfaction they feel at the end of a shift, having done what they were expected to do. Dispatchers come in all shapes and sizes, all races, both sexes, and all ages. They are blondes, and brunettes, and redheads. They are quiet and outgoing, single, or married, plain, beautiful, or handsome. No two are alike, yet they are all the same. They are people who were selected in a difficult hiring process to do an impossible job. They are as different as snowflakes, but they have one thing in common. They care about people and they enjoy being the lifeline of society - that steady voice in a storm - the one who knows how to handle every emergency and does it with style and grace; and, uncompromised competence. Dispatchers play many roles; therapist, doctor, lawyer, teacher, weatherman, guidance counselor, psychologist, priest, secretary, supervisor, politician, and reporter. And few people must jump through the emotional hoops on the trip through the joy of one callers birthday party, to the fear of another callers burglary in progress, to the anger of a neighbor blocked in their drive, and back to the birthday callers all in a two minute time frame. The emotional roller coaster rolls to a stop after an 8 or 10 hour shift, and they are expected to walk down to their car with steady feet and no queasiness in their stomach - because they are dispatchers. If they hold it in, they are too closed. If they talk about it, they are a whiner. If it bothers them, it adds more stress. If it doesn't, they question themselves, wondering why. Dispatchers are expected to have: -the compassion of Mother Theresa; -the wisdom of Solomon; -the interviewing skills of Oprah Winfrey; -the gentleness of Florence Nightingale; -the patience of Job; -the voice of Barbara Streisand; -the knowledge of Einstein; -the answers of Ann Landers; -the humor of David Letterman; -the investigative skills of Sgt. Joe Friday; -the looks of Melanie Griffith or Don Johnson; -the faith of Billy Graham; -the energy of Charo; -and the endurance of the Energizer Bunny. Is it any wonder that many drop out during training? It is a unique and talented person who can do this job and do it well. And, it is fitting and proper that we take a few minutes or hours this week to honor you for the job that each of you do. That recognition is overdue and it is insufficient. But, it is sincere. I have tried to do your job, and I have failed. It takes a special person with unique skills. I admire you and I thank you for the thankless job you do. You are heroes, and I am proud to work with you. I am the voice that calms the mother into breathing life back into her infant son. I am the invisible hand that holds and comforts the elderly man who woke up this morning to find his wife of 50 years has passed away during the night. I am the friend who talks the disgruntled teenager out of ending her own life. I sent help when you had your first automobile accident. I am the one who tries to obtain the information from callers to ensure that the scene is safe for those I dispatch to emergencies - all the while anticipating the worst and hoping for the best. I am the psychologist who readily adapts my language and tone of voice to serve the needs of my callers with compassion and understanding. I am the ears that listen to the needs of all those I serve. I have heard the screams of faceless people I never will meet nor forget. I have cried at the atrocities of mankind and rejoiced at the miracles of life. I was there, though unseen by my comrades in the field during the most trying emergencies. I have tried to visualize the scene to coincide with the voices I heard. I usually am not privy to the outcome of a call, and so I wonder... I am the one who works weekends, strange shifts and holidays. Children do not say they want my job when they grow up. Yet, I am at this vocation by choice. Those I help do not call back to say thank you. Still there is comfort in the challenge, integrity, and purpose of my employment. I am thankful to provide such a meaningful service. I am a mother, father, sister, brother, son or daughter. I am where you need me and still here when you don't. My office is never empty, and the work here is never done. I am always on call. The training is strenuous, demanding and endless. No two days at work are ever the same. Who am I? I am an Emergency 9-1-1 Dispatch

Saturday, November 7, 2009

Friends v. Family



Lazy days arn't always a good thing...they give you to much time to think.  And I have been doing a lot of thinking lately about friends and family.  Now by family I'm not talking about my parents or my mil/fil.  I'm talking about the rest of them, and by friends well that's pretty self explanatory.  And sometimes they can be one in the same, but often they are not.  If anything it's your friends that act more like your family then vice/versa.  Espically when your family has double standards.
Now moving onto friends...sometimes you wonder about them to, but what I wonder the most about them is are some of them friends out of obligation?  Like are they just being nice?  Send you a comment here and there on facebook, but deep down praying that you never really need them, text them, or email them? 
But the funniest thing about family and friends is when you do something wrong or you don't tell them the gossip, they are the first ones wanting to know "why didn't you call me"?  Or when you try to right a wrong they give you some half ass reason why they "don't like you", but come to find out, its been ok all along for them to be doing the same exact thing!  Gotta love it!
So to all of my REAL friends and family (some of them are one in the same) I want to say thank you!  I love ya'll!! 

Friday, November 6, 2009

RAK Contest.....

A mom on another board I'm on is doing this and I think its a great idea!  The "prize" will vary depending on if the winner is a female or male..lol. 


**I have decided to make this a WEEK long contest so that being said you can choose to do either 5 of the things below or 3 below and 2 of your own.  Either way PLEASE let me know if your are participating!!  The contest will end Nov.14th! Thanks**

WHAT'S 'RAK' : Random Acts of Kindness

CONTEST RULES :
Very simple :
1) Complete every 'RAK' task below.
2) As you do them, please come here and tell us the story.
3) The first person to complete all the tasks will get a little RAK of their own in the mail. (I'll announce the winner and ask them to pm me their address)

TO MAKE MY JOB EASIER : when you complete another RAK, please keep track as a comment on THIS blog post (as on tally) BUT when your done with them all, it is still your responsibility to let me know! 

1) Smile at a stranger (preferably someone who looks like they need it)
2) Buy a coffee (or other beverage, or sandwich, or donut, or whatever) for the person behind you in a fast-food restaurant line (my personal favorite is to do it in a drive-through!)
3) Pay for someone’s parking (if you walk by a parking meter that’s out of time, for example!)
4) Send a pizza to a hospital nursing station/police station/fire station
5) Let a car into traffic ahead of you
6) Mow your neighbor’s lawn while you are doing your own (or if you are a fellow Canadian shovel your neighbor’s driveway or walk-way!)-IF you can't do this you can take your neighbor a baked good or write them a nice note!
7) Send a handwritten letter to your best friend (or a family member) telling them how much they are appreciated.
8 ) Leave a generous tip and write a THANK YOU on your receipt
9) Give your spouse a back or foot rub
10) Next time you receive good service, call the company to let them know (or fill out a comment card)
11) Do a chore for someone (their laundry, vacuum their floor…etc!)
12) Offer to babysit for a friend who needs a night away from the kids
13) Make a charitable donation (any amount, any charity) – no need to post the amount here…
14) Pick up litter on the street (or park)
15) Help a stranger carry groceries or other bags to their car
16) Make your family (or just your spouse) breakfast in bed
17) Tell a mother in your life what your admire about her mothering
18) Call up a family member you haven’t spoken to in years (or in weeks :D ) and catch up
19) Buy a hot beverage or meal for a street person
20) YOUR CHOICE!!

Thursday, November 5, 2009

Believe it or not.....

TODAY I'M.......


Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Things people should be smacked for...lol



So here is my list of why I think some people deserve to be smacked.  Feel free to add some things I may have forgotten.
~Conspiracy to be a Bitch-NCIS
~Back stabbing
~Double standards
~Leaving their signal on once they get over
~Driving the speed limit on the nose
~Hurting your feelings just because they can
~Being perfect
~Ignoring you
~Going back on their word/breaking promises...on purpose
~Racism
~Lack of respect
~Letting their kids wear heelys in a crowded store
~Talking behind your back
~Picking their nose while driving...yuck
~Not wiping their kids faces after their noses have been running
~Not wiping their kids faces period
~Not supporting their children
~Parking their carts in the middle of the isle at the grocery store

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

What I love about Tuesdays...

 Well its usually Tequilla Tuesday, but I'm having  Goldschlager instead...LOL and maybe a glass or two of wine to.  And the BEST thing about Tuesdays...NCIS I mean common how much more eye candy could one woman ask for??  Now if one of them :cough: Mark Harmon :cough: could just come and arrest me and take me away from this drama for a while, all would be right with the world! LOL  Common ya'll know I have a point!  :o)  So for your viewing pleasure:



For a second on a serious note. As ya'll know I have a lot on my mind.  What irritates me the most about all the crap that's going on is that people won't talk to ME about it.   Some of the people doing it...I'm not surprised,  it's par for the course.  But some of them it really hurts.  I would say I wish dh would talk to me, but yeah well maybe one day before...well anyways.  I don't want to go there anymore right now.  I WILL say that I would appreciate talking TO me please..thank you. 

Monday, November 2, 2009

Not me monday...


I totally did NOT let Diem have junk food all day on Saturday, because I wouldn't do that...not me.  Even though it was my Birthday and we were running around like crazy, she normally doesn't eat "junk" more then for dessert at dinner so she was VERY happy! LOL

I did NOT float like I was on cloud nine every time a bunch of teenagers and grown men (and football loving women) would fall all over my daughter in her costume.   Not just because she was my daughter, but because she was different.  She was not in the typical costume we could go get, and I was proud of that....because I am NOT creative! LOL and thank God for a MIL that can sew, ebay, and awesome Pink Ladys!!

I do NOT think it s the funniest thing that Diem will now make you ask her "Why not?"....just so that she can tell you..."because I said"...LMAO!!

I do NOT really miss *me* the person everybody needed, loved, etc.  I wish I could find her again.  Oh and the pretty one...wow...LOL.  I have all these messengers yadda yadda and sometimes I'm like ding damnit!! HAHA used to be they would ding and I was like, I do NOT have time for this!

I do NOT miss my GBFF'S .  I'm not really sure what happened there guess the "luv" is gone.  But ya'll are reading, ......you don't have to come back because I don't miss ya'll....haha.

WOW...I do NOT sound pathetic!

Trick or Treat...

Saturday was a nice day, we wanted to take Diem to the zoo but when we got there NPD was standing at the entrance because the lot was full.  So I asked if there was other parking, well the assclown ofc goes "lot closed"...WOW I'm glad none of our guys are like that!!  So we went and saw Cindi for a few minutes and then off to Target.  Everybody though Diem was adorable!  We decided to do trick or treating after all (my B-day so that's what I wanted to do), and we went to Karen and Davids house.  People loved her costume and she was not scared of a thing!
So we went to the Zoo today (Sunday) and Diem once again got a lot of complements on her costume and got candy.  She didn't win the contest though, I think she and the Pope got screwed!  The kids that won were generic, but oh well.
As for my actual Birthday itself Josh got me a JJB cake made in my fav print Groovy Garden!!  If ya'll don't know what JJB is then just click on the icon!!  And Missie send me a box from Denmark with goodies in it (some not so "good"...lol).  But overall it was a nice/fun day!   Now...for not me Monday!!! Yay!! LOL  G'night all!